Wednesday, February 29, 2012

An Imporant Lesson Learned


Have you ever wanted to blog about something but you just do not know how to say it clearly through writing. Or, you are so excited about the subject you just want to blabber through it and you know at the end it probably will not make any since?. . .Well tonight is one of those nights and one of those blogs so if you care to keep reading buckle up! My thoughts are random and skewed but this is a big part of who I am and who I am constantly working to become.

When I was a young woman, 16 or 17 years old, I attended a conference with my sister. There were many classes you could choose to attend but we chose a class I have not forgot, neither will I ever forget. The instructor shared a tip of which I follow every day and with which I want to share with you. . . .Her advise was to get up in the morning and spend all the time you need getting ready. BUT, once you are done getting ready you leave that mirror, you forget about yourself, and you go to work on others. Stop worrying about yourself and compliment somebody else, befriend somebody who needs your friendship, give service of any sort to those who stand in need. The rest of your day is to be spent in the service of others.

At that stage in my life I needed to hear that message. This was a time as a young woman I was starting to get into make-up, hair and stylish clothes. I had begun to think that these attributes determined who you were and I was constantly worrying about me. As I walked away from this conference something changed within me. While I still love stylish clothes, make-up, and doing hair that did not end up becoming the center of my life or my finest attribute. Each morning I take time to get ready. I get ready till the point I am comfortable. I look in the mirror one final time and then I forget about myself.

It was not easy to forget about myself at first. However, as I learned more of my identity - that I am a child of God, He loves me, He knows me by name, and He has a plan for me, did I begin to gain a tremendous amount of confidence and an eternal perspective. In the aid of this process I began to read my scriptures consistently and pray daily.

As I forgot about myself it began getting easier to find people who stood in need of help.

My whole purpose in this life is to become like my Savior, Jesus Christ and follow Him.

Every day during our Saviors ministry he healed, mourned, blessed, taught and visited others. He is charity. And he continues to bless us today with his grace. I know that the only way to true happiness is our pursuit to become like Him. To become like our Savior we must learn of Him and come to know Him. We can do these things by reading The Book of Mormon which is another testament of Jesus Christ. Also, we can read the bible. We can pray to him often. I know he wants us to become like Him, to learn of Him and come unto Him. He is the light, the truth and the life. He is our saving grace and our road to an eternal happiness.

Tuesday, February 28, 2012

New Beginnings. . . .

Starting a blog has been an adventure I have wanted to embark on for quite some time now. However, the figuring out how to start one and finding the time to do so has taken awhile to overcome. Thus today has been a mile marking step for me as I created my first blog, and can now cross another goal of my bucket list. Or maybe I will have to wait until it becomes my 'dream' blog to cross it off my bucket list. As I view my template it looks awfully gloomy. That will also take time of which I am about to run out of seeing as I have classes that start again from 3:00 p.m -8:00 p.m tonight.
Before I leave. . . I better post something about me for one of those awkward introductions. Here goes nothing - I come from a family of six with two wonderful parents an old sister and two younger brothers. My family is very close knit. I am still living at home while attending college. . . I know. I know. Failure to launch. Right? Living at home this one extra year has actually been the greatest blessing in my life. I love my family and I treasure the time I spend with them. I have now finished all I can at Dixie State College so this coming Fall/Winter track I will be attending Brigham Young University -Idaho. All I can say is BUUURRRR- this southern girl does not even own a coat and she will miss her family all the stars and all the ABCs. At BYU-I I will continue with some pre-med courses although I am becoming uncertain or should I say discouraged about heading that direction. I definitely need to hit a yellow light to slow down and reconsider my major. . . rather soon! A couple of my interests include CrossFit - yes I am buff and yes I can do 50+ pull ups in a workout and at least 20 unbroken. I also enjoy running, eating and believe it or not going to school. . . I  love LEARNING! *Nerd Alert*! And finally, my latest found interest is sewing and design. There is my sweet and rather simple life in a nut shell. Oh and one final word or words FREE PANCAKES AT I HOP!